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“The ‏Maamer”

The groom chooses to share a spiritual idea from a Ma’amar of the Rebbe at this special moment before the chuppah to deepen the significance of the union they are about to enter. By repeating this teaching, the groom emphasizes that their union is not just a physical joining of two individuals but also a profound connection that mirrors the bond between G-d and the Jewish people, symbolized by the higher sefirot—Zeir Anpin (Z”A) and Malchut.

This moment is seen by the groom as an opportunity to sanctify their relationship, connecting them not only to each other but also to G-d. Just as Shabbat is welcomed with joy and brings blessings, so too does the union of the bride and groom bring abundant blessings to their shared life. The ceremony represents a moment of spiritual elevation, where they are blessed with holiness and connect to the divine light that accompanies the wedding.

By sharing this idea, the groom seeks to remind both themselves and everyone present that their bond is not merely personal but has a deep spiritual dimension. This dimension brings blessing, holiness, and divine illumination to all aspects of their lives. The joy they feel now is also a spiritual joy, linking them to the divine forces and blessings that come with this sacred union.